why

why is it, that once girls, gay men, and fag hags know of your sexual orientation, they immediately think you can speak various versions of swardspeak? (i can't and i don't)

why is it, that once men know of your sexual orientation, they immediately think you are attracted to them, no matter how unattractive they are (to me, anyway - hehe)? i actually have a theory on this one.

why is it, that once people know of your sexual orientation, they immediately think you must be attracted to young or teenage boys? (so far, i'm not)

why is it, that once people know of your sexual orientation, they immediately ask why you're not very girly? (because like the rainbow, gay men come in an assortment of colors)

just some thoughts that occurred to me while reading reactions to a post i made about gay men having sex with hardly legal-aged seducers.

i quickly determined that my sudden and violent reaction to the nonchalance of this event was due to my idea of a utopian society. which means i live in a dreamworld.

i will not be a hypocrite and say that the thought hasn't crossed my mind when i was a teen. in high school, i did imagine myself kissing someone older, a 15-year old boy. i was 14. hehe. that was probably the extent of it. i guess i lived a sheltered life in terms of sex. i still do.

and i will admit i have daddy-son fantasies. and i'm always the son. how vain of me. (lol)

and it's a good thing i don't like children very much. it serves a purpose that is twofold: one, that i have less chances of being sexually attracted to one, and that two, i wouldn't have to worry about having a child in the future that might indulge in sexual encounters (with adults or peers) without being equipped emotionally and psychologically.

although if it is indeed true, that most youngsters today are experimenting with sex at an early age, what would that entail, in terms of moral and legal parameters? or in emotional and psychological definitions? would the laws change? would society change?

are children today much more matured than their previous generations? i don't think i would be as much disturbed if todays teens are sexually active with their peers, and not their peers' parents.

true, sex is messy. but it's messier when one belongs to a (gay) society that has already been marginalized, categorized, and ostracized by the majority. ized, ized, baby.

gay adult men having sex with legal minors.

i think i was the one of the few who protested that this is just wrong.

gay adult men having sex with legal minors.

i kind of think it takes the civil rights and gay recognition movement back a step or two.

kind of like electing a black president into office, just to have an equal-rights proposition overturned in the span of a few hours.

but who among those i communicated with, would care?

as perezhilton would say... WTF?