a long survey

21 things about trey... and more

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing?
a) definitely single

2) Are you happy with where you are?
a) not really

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
a) i think i would (which is scary!)

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
a) haven't, thank god!

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
a) it wouldn't be called cheating if it were okay...

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
a) most probably not... it's a deal breaker specially if they lied about it in the first place

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
a) nope

8) Do you want children? How many?
a) maybe a dog or two, but no children

9) Would you consider adoption?
a) it's an option, but right now it's not in the picture

10) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
a) a simple hi to ask me out on a date would be nice...

11) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
a) only if i know the guy enjoys the chase

12) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
a) playing the field? as long as the dates are harmless and no one's getting hurt, why not?

13) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
a) that's possible... rare, but possible

14) Are you romantic?
a) my mind says no... but i know i am

15) Do you believe that you can change someone?
a) no, you can't change a person... a person will change only if he wants to, whether for the best or not

16) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object where would it be?
a) definitely a beach wedding, not very particular where, as long as the beach is a terrific one!

17) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
a) no, not yet

18) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
a) who hasn't?

19) Have you ever broken a heart?
a) i don't think so... i hope i haven't!

20) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
a) i believe everyone has his own battles to fight, but it sure helps if you have allies!

21)What would you say about your last ex?
a) never had an ex!

On relationships...

What sort of people do you like, as far as what their interests are in life?
* people with light baggage in their lives

What physical traits do you look for in a potential interest?
* preferably taller and bulkier and athletic

What kind of fashion-sense attracts you?
* casual!

What kind of hair style do you find attractive on a potential mate?
* short short hair

What is the usual age range you look at?
* probably 20 to 40

What traits turn you off?
* dishonesty and disrespect

Do you prefer to date various people or do you pretty much fall into monogamous relationships quickly?
* i think it's fine to date around as long as it's light and harmless

Are you afraid to ask people out on dates?
* yes, and i need to work on that

If you're single right now, do you wish you were in a relationship?
* yes

What are the positive points about being single?
* you're free to do whatever you want to without thinking about someone else's feelings

What are the negative points about being single?
* that you're all alone in the end... but aren't we all going to be?

When single, do you often find yourself longing for companionship?
* not really

How well do you handle rejection?
* pretty good

Do you miss your last sweetie?
* i miss my ex-colleague D, who i really liked

Do you think it's better to look for love or let it find you?
* i'm starting to see that if you start to look for love, it will also look for you

Do you think couples should spend a very large amount of time together or space things out a tad?
* i think there should be a balance of both

When involved with a person, do you try to think about the here and now or do you often think of the future?
* a bit of both

How do you prefer to handle disagreements?
* talk it out after both have cooled off

How do you feel when your mate is mad at you and won't tell you why?
* frustrating, but i guess i need to wait it out... but i would definitely appreciate knowing about it

Do you have a crush right now? Do they know?
* no, and no

What's the longest period of time you've ever had a crush?
* geez! years.

Have you ever confessed your feelings to a crush?
* once, to this guy from bacolod

Do you tell a lot of people when you have a crush?
* not really... just a few

Has someone who had a crush on you ever confessed to you?
* no, he let it go around some people who told me about it

How do you feel about long-distance relationships?
* does not and will not ever work

Would you get involved with someone if they had a child already?
* i would think about it

Would you get involved with someone if they were previously married?
* probably

How big of an issue is religion to your compatibility?
* not very, as long as it's not forced on me

How big of an issue to you is your mate's ethnicity?
* not very, as long as we're attracted to and compatible with each other

In a potential mate, how important is intelligence to you?
* as long as he's not a moron, that should be fine

In a potential mate, how important is a sense of humor to you?
* totally important!

What was your first kiss like?
* exciting, scary, and beautiful

What part of a person's body do you find most attractive?
* the upper torso

What's the first thing you look at when you look at someone you're attracted to?
* the whole package

How important are the looks of a mate's face to you?
* i'd say important, except that beauty is so subjective... beautiful to me is not beautiful for everyone

How important are the looks of a mate's body to you?
* pretty important...

Have you ever casually made out with someone who you weren't seriously involved with?
* yes, but just a kiss

Were you single at the time?
* yes

What do you most like about making out?
* everything!

Are you a virgin?
* not anymore

If not, would you consider your first time to have been a good one?
* yes, it was a good one

Have you ever turned down an offer for sex?
* yes... who hasn't?

How much do you think sex changes a relationship?
* it's pretty important to have a healthy sexual relationship with the person you love

On a scale from 1 to 10 [10 being the highest] how would you rate your sexual attractiveness?
* 7, but i would like to think 8

How do you feel about casual sex?
* as long as you're not hurting anyone, it's fine

Would you stay with a lover if the love stopped but the sex was still enjoyable?
* that's probably the time when an open relationship is recommended!

Would you stay with a lover if the sex stopped/got boring but there was still love?
* probably...

Are you a monogamous person or do you believe in open-ended relationships?
* monogamy over open relationships

How do you feel about marriage?
* it's fine for those who feel they are ready for it

If you're currently not married, do you foresee yourself ever tying the knot?
* if i am ready and am with someone who feels the same way, why not?

Have you ever had an emotional pain so bad it made you sick or physically hurt?
* no, you can't let negative emotions hurt you that much or else you'd be a slave to them

Have you ever learned an important lesson as a result of a break up?
* from my friends, yes... it's important to leave it with closure and be amicable with exes, if possible

Do you believe there's hope for people after they get back together or do you think the same problems that caused the initial break up will resurface?
* if there was a loss of trust and respect in the first place, then there's not much chance of having it work the second time around

"Now, if I was your boyfriend..."

how many times a day would you kiss me?
* as many times as i could

how many times a day would you fuck me?
* refer to above!

would we fuck everyday?
* hell yeah!

how many times a day would you just want to hold me?
* again, refer to first question

would you take me places?
* if i could afford them!

if we went out on a date would u have me pay for it?
* if you insist, otherwise we can go dutch

would you take me anywhere special?
* i think even the simplest place would be special if i were with someone special

If one a my friends tried to get with you what would you do?
* i wouldn't make a big deal about it

would u tell me?
* yeah

Would u introduce me to your mom/dad?
* yeah

Would you care about what i wore when we out ?
* not really

If your friend tried to get at me what would you do?
* drop that friend immediately

If someone tried to fight with me in front of you what would you do?
* drag you out of it, and kiss you for being so fucking brave!

If a guy tried to talk or dance with you at the club what would u do?
* it's just a dance, right? you know i would leave the club with you at the end

If i cheated on you would you take me back?
* most probably not

Would u give me your myspace password?
* no, and i wouldn't ask for yours either

If i gave you mine would you read all my mail?
* no, they're yours and i respect privacy